Self Help Manuals & Stop Gambling Chat Rooms Help Compulsive Gamblers Recovery To Accelerate

Self help manuals and chat rooms help compulsive gamblers to face their addiction head on. Through this process they are able to realize for the first time in their life that they have been trapped in a world of self destruction.

Self help manuals help the compulsive gambler to see things in a new perspective. While a person in under the grips of this addiction they seem to have a hard time focusing on everyday tasks including work. Then one day they realize they have a problem but are not yet ready to deal with it. They start to learn a little more about what's happening to them. Even though they realize they have a problem, they don't know what to do or where to go. In most cases they know about Gamblers Anonymous but are unwilling to reveal their identity. They take the time to surf the internet but still not sure what to do. They see a recovery program that cost less then twenty dollars. They make the excuse that's ridiculous it should be for free. That same night they decide to go out to the gambling establishment. They lose over three hundred dollars. They now realize they need help. They go back to that same website but have no credit card or means at that point in time to make a purchase. They decide as soon as they get money they will purchase the stop gambling manual. As soon as they get money they forget they ever have an addiction and head right to the local gambling establishment only to start the cycle all over again. Once they have had enough they make the purchase and start their recovery process. A few months later they can not believe what they have done and how this could ever happen to them. This is where the chat rooms come in. The stop gambling chat rooms are filled with people who understand what you have going through. Once the compulsive gambler enters the chat room they realize they are not alone and there are people there who can relate to the road they have traveled.

Self help manuals and self help stop gambling manuals help the compulsive gambler to move forward with their life as the recover. It's up to the individual to decide what's right for them as they recover. There are many people who have successfully stopped with Gamblers Anonymous, so it's important to keep an open mind when finding a recovery program that will works for you.

Mr. Howard Keith has an extensive background in dealing with compulsive gamblers, relatives and friends of gamblers and teenage gamblers. Mr. Keith believes there are many alternatives to aid in the recovery of a gambling addiction verses a twelve step program. A large percentage of his emails were from compulsive gamblers looking for an alternative to Gamblers Anonymous and twelve step programs. Gamblers Anonymous also helps a significant number of people each year but there is a large percentage that they are unable to reach.

For more information on gambling addiction and stop gambling you can check out

I Stopped Gambling So Can You http://www.istoppedgambling.com/

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Chat Rooms and Internet Safety for Your Kids and Teens

Chat rooms are very popular with kids and teens right now. Sites like myspace.com and others can be a great way for kids to get to know other kids and teens who share the same interests as them. But, just as with nearly every other good thing, chat rooms have a dangerous side as well. Online predators, harassment, inappropriate language and other concerns can all be found in chat rooms that cater to kids and teens. So, before your children get online, you need to make sure that they understand all of the rules on the information highway.

Suggestions for Parents:

1. One of the best things that you can do to monitor your child's use of chat rooms is to have your computer in a public place. This will not only give you an easy way to check what they are doing, but you can limit their time online as well.

2. Since you cannot be watching your children constantly while they are online using chat rooms, you can purchase a software program that will monitor their use. Some programs can record "conversations," limit your child's time online, and even prevent your child from sharing personal information.

3. Have a discussion with your child to let them know the rules and then post the rules for using chat rooms and the internet. Make sure they understand and agree to all of the rules.

4. Get your child's login name and password for any chat rooms that they visit.

Rules for kids:

1. Never tell anyone what you look like, where you live, what your phone number is, or give out your full name.

2. Only use rooms that have a moderator.

3. If you see any language, pictures, etc. that are inappropriate or mean, talk to your parents or contact the moderator immediately.

4. Don't agree to meet anyone you meet online without permission from your parents.

5. Don't send your picture or anything else to anyone you meet online unless your parents agree.

6. Never give out your password or login information to anyone except your parents.

7. Ask permission before you have a "private chat" or IM.

Eriani Doyel writes articles about Chat Rooms. For more information about chat rooms visit www.figarden.com

NAMBLA, Chat Rooms and the Internet: Is Your Child Safe?

This has been the toughest article to write but it's probably the most important. Through my journey of writing this piece, I had to visit sites that made me sick to my stomach. I urge everyone to read this article and start protecting America's greatest assets, our children.

While the internet can be a wonderful place to find information about specific topics, news, special events, etc., it can be an unsafe place for your children and a breeding ground for child sex abusers.

Is your child safe from sex offenders? Sadly, every child is vulnerable to the monsters who commit these terrible crimes.

In this article I will inform you about the threat of the internet to our children and then tell you how you can begin to protect them. We will look into NAMBLA, Chat rooms and the Internet.

NAMBLA - A disgusting organization protected by the ACLU and stands for North American Man/Boy Love organization (NAMBLA.com - enter at your own risk). I almost threw up when I visited the site). NAMBLA's goal is "to end the oppression of men and boys who have freely chosen, mutually consensual relationships".

This is ridiculous. Children can't freely enter into a sexual relationship. This sick organization (the largest but not the only man/boy love organization on the internet) claims that a consensual sexual relationship with boys is normal.

All the data I've read from crime sites to protective agencies has led me to believe that the vast majority of people who partake in sexual relationships with children have induced them into the relationship, either by force or other types of pressure.

Children and teenagers are susceptible to manipulation and may do things to please others. They want to have a sense of belonging and want to be loved and respected.

Monsters like members of NAMBLA will go to any lengths to manipulate children into having sex with them. Then these people try and say that their acts are normal.

Most studies done on victims of child sexual assaults say that many years after the abuse, these sex acts have harmed them immensely.

As young children become adults and realize the terrible nature of the crimes committed against them, they face having to deal with the pain that has been inflicted on them.

We must not tolerate groups like NAMBLA and the ACLU who try to protect horrible people who commit senseless crimes. My plea to you. Please don't vote for any politician who supports the ACLU.

One final point on the ACLU. If I advocated on my website, the violence against a minority group, I could be charged with a hate crime (and that would be the right decision). The ACLU wouldn't support my right to free speech in that case but they do defend the right of NAMBLA to advocate for sex with young boys. Isn't having sex with young boys a violent crime?

So the ACLU is supporting the right of adult men to violently harm young boys. This is sick and must be stopped.

Chat Rooms/Internet - Chat rooms and the internet can be great places for people to exchange ideas and thoughts. They can also be dangerous places for disgusting human beings to try and kindle relationships with children and teenagers.

Dateline NBC recently had a show where they had set up a sting with child sex abusers. They had actors posing as teenage girls who set up dates with adult men.

Chat rooms make it easy for offenders to perpetrate their crimes. These people can remain identity free from their potential victims. They can pretend to be who they want. Since few chat rooms verify the status of their members there's almost no way of knowing who the person you are corresponding with is.

The internet is similar. People can post text, video, audio and pictures on the internet at will. This makes it easy for people who transmit child pornography to share their information with many people.

The internet also allows child molesters to discuss their crimes and desires with other like minded criminals (http://www.prevent-abuse-now.com/pedoweb.htm). NAMBLA is an example of an internet membership group where sex offenders can go to receive encouragement for their crimes and are told that their behavior is normal. They can also discuss how to carry out a crime.

The resources to help these molesters are extensive on the internet. Their identity can also remain hidden on the internet, making it easier for them to plan their crimes. The sad truth is that all children are vulnerable to abuse if they aren't equipped with the right information to combat the abuse.

There are chat rooms and news groups that provide comfort to child sex offenders and also tell children that it's ok to have a loving sexual relationship with an adult. These chat rooms and news groups keep the identitites of the offender and the victim hidden from the public.

This makes it hard to fight and is contrary to all the teachings of parents, law enforcement and teachers.

Forensic investigation is getting much better at finding and tracking down these criminals but it doesn't stop the crime from being committed.

There are steps that parents can take to try and protect their children from sex offenders. Internet safety for your children is very similar to normal education that you would talk to your child about when it comes to sexual assault. You can visit Childnet International for more information.

1) Keep your child's information secret and don't give personal information to strangers online - Just like the physical world you should be very careful about transmitting personal information about your child, online. This includes personal information, pictures, videos, etc. Please tell your child not to give out personal information on websites, forums, chat rooms, news groups and other internet websites.

2) Check on the material that your children are looking at and agree about the ground rules of where your children can go - Monitor the types of sites that you child visits and monitor the content of that site.

3) Tell your children not to fill out forms that ask for personal information - The internet is full of pop-up ads, forms and other advertising that asks the user for personal information. Educate your child about the risks of filling out these forms and ask your child to stay away from them.

4) Warn your children of the risks of opening unsolicited emails - Even with the best email filters your child's email is sure to receive dozens of spam emails a day. These emails may come from sources that may not be in the best interest of your child. There's much more that you can do. Contact your law local enforcement agency for more information on how you can protect your child from child sex abusers.

The Warning Signs (Visit CyberAngels.org for more information)

1) Screen Switching - If your child turns off the monitor or changes screens when you enter the room, this can be a sign that they're on a website that is not suitable for children.

2) Odd Phone Calls - If your child starts receiving phone calls from unknown adults it can also be a warning sign that something is wrong.

3) Odd hours of the night - If you notice that your child is online at odd hours of the night, they may be in contact with someone that can potentially harm them or may be partaking in activities that may put them in danger.

4) Large amounts of cash - Be concerned if your child suddenly has large amounts of cash. Speak to your child and try to find out where the money came from.

5) A withdrawn child - If your child seems withdrawn from you and other loved ones including their friends, there may be something terribly wrong. It's important that you find out what the problems is.

There are other resources for you to check out:

1) Family Research Council

2) Enough is Enough

3) National Coalition for the Protection of Children & Families

The internet can be a potentially harmful place for your children and can also be a breeding ground for the sick and perverse attitudes and actions of child sex abusers. It's up to all of us to become informed and pass on the right information to our nations children so that they can have a safe experience on the internet.

Anthony B. is the founder and owner of ItsTheRightWay.com a news, political and sports commentary website.

Anthony has over 7 years of experience as a business professional

Internet Chat Rooms: Are We Missing the Point?

In my short life, after years of talking too much, I've come to realize that if one is always speaking, one never listens. If you never listen to others, well, you're limiting your access to a lot of knowledge and information. Recently, after much deliberation I thought I'd check out what the world of Chat Rooms is like. People talk to each other by text, voice, and web cam. This is a really big phenomenon; I wanted to see what all the fuss is about.

I expect there are many chat rooms where people with similar interests get to know each other, and share their perspectives on various aspects of life. These are great, much cheaper than telephones, and multiple, random people can chat to one another simultaneously.

But I speak the truth, and my preconceived ideas about mindless gossip from jaded humans were sadly affirmed as I arbitrarily checked chat rooms that supposedly discussed important subjects. It seems some people are just very bored, and want to be cool and swear on-line, insulting others, and giving this area of information technology a bad name. I think a lot of people are using the rooms solely for personal conversation that contextually no one else can understand.

I went to a chat room about religion, and then to one about tattoos and it seemed like the same people were talking. Most of the conversation didn't even touch the supposed subject matter. It was definitely a disenchanting experience but hopefully with more research I hope to come across some serious rooms where the true intent of the creators has come to fruition.

I guess it's good that bored people in our technological society have others to talk to. It means depressed adolescents may feel more connected to others and not so alone in the world, maybe even having a positive effect on a possibly suicidal youth. But, I do feel this nonsensical chitchat is a sign of our next generation's apathetic view of present reality in our postmodern culture. When reading the text from a supposedly religious discussion, and hearing graphic use of derogatory terminology, I really have to wonder about the present spiritual beliefs of my culture.

I'm a true believer of the concept that technology is here to further the consciousness of humanity. Computers and the Internet can help bring all of us in the world together, thus evolving our society to the next level. After looking at chat rooms, I feel there is a need to integrate more wisdom and compassion into our ‘new world' generation. Having the technology is great, but it is only one half of the equation. To make the Internet work properly, I think we need to instill the same faith we have in science, into a faith that encompasses the actual creators of the information and communication tools-humanity itself. We seem to realize that we can invent many great things, but it looks like we're missing out on the great truth: that we ourselves are part of, and made of something great in itself: Life. (Existence!)

About The Author

Jesse S. Somer is a simple human hoping to help others to see the huge possibilities of the Internet; http://www.m6.net

Parenting Chat Rooms Have Developed Over Time

It seems impossible to be able to connect to millions all over the world to talk about parenting advice but it is very possible with a wonderful thing called the internet. It is fun to be an expectant mother because you can find tons of free advice in parenting chat rooms. You get a chance to talk to other mothers who are also expecting and experiencing the same issues you are, either in a parenting chat room or via email, they have become very reliable and is all the rage.

You will meet a variety of people with children of all ages, this is normal because some of those parents have been around for ages and sharing their past experiences for people just like you. Friendship will develop after you find yourself talking to some woman 600 miles away from you for over a long period of time as they are able to relate to you and give you advice due to their own experience. Sounds expensive considering phone bills and stamps doesn't it, well it is not anymore with the ease of being online.

Children with Disabilities Have Their Own Genre of Internet Benefits

We find ourselves getting online nowadays to find out information about something, if you discover that your child has a disability, where else will you go to find out information other than the cyber world. Coping with a disabled child is exhausting; things that may seem simple to a normal child are ten times harder for those with handicaps. A great place to go and find out how to cope and encourage your child in rough times is a well established parenting chat room that focuses on children with disabilities. Here you will be able to share your stories, experiences and concerns and receive back valuable feedback.

Just because you cannot see the person you are talking to, expressing your issues with and trusting their advice does not mean it's not taken to heart and real. Provided by parenting chat rooms is an online place for parents to contribute to each other in hard times.

The possibility of being connected with other parents around the world is highly likely in your household; you may not even know it. Out there in the vast realm of the cyber world is a parenting chat room that is perfect for you, and covers all the topics you particularly worry about.

How do you rate your Parenting Skills? Are you coping well with your toddler or teen? Perhaps you need some expert help parenting troubled teens. Clive Jenkins recommends the Parenting Tips Website which can be found here: http://www.parentingtipssite.com. Checkout the site now for specialist Parenting tips, help and advice.

Dating Through Online Chat Rooms

Internet or online dating is a fantastic way to meet someone without having to face the bar or club scene. Going into a chat room you can get to know someone and talk to them, so that you can determine if you want to meet with them or date them in the offline real world.

You are able to communicate and get to know quite a bit about someone, without even having to leave your home. The physical appearance aspect is thus very much played down, giving both a chance to base attraction on deeper values.

The first impression you give, will be based totally on how you present yourself and communicate online through the words that you type. You need to be aware of some things for your own safety though. Luckily these are very easy to accomplish by being an anonymous computer user. Just use some common sense before meeting people in real life.

Always use a fictitious online name or "handle". Try and use an email address that can be easily changed or deleted. Never give out your work email address or your physical address over the Internet. This is not only to protect yourself from the person that you are chatting to, in case they have less than honest motives, but also from online lurkers. There are people out there, some very clever people, that will eavesdrop on your chat, and use any information they get to their advantage. This often happens without either chat partner even knowing about it. Use a "Hot mail, Yahoo or Gmail" account for this.

You should of course be honest about the information that you do put online. Your gender, age and city that you live in, are general enough, to be useless to hackers, but obviously important to your chat partner. Just avoid handing out phone numbers, addresses etc

Be honest when you're chatting with someone online. This is particularly important if you're chatting trying to find a potential date. Starting to lie about how you look, what you do, your interests, or any other personal information, would not be a great start to a potential relationship. Always think, what if this person is the one, would you like them to be interested in something that you are not, or the real you? Remember, you will eventually meet in real life if this goes further, how would you feel about someone that had lied to you? Give the same courtesy that you expect.

Also don't expect too much from someone that you meet in a chat room. Remember, you don't know what they are really like so it's best to wait and not arrange an offline date after the first chat. Set up online dates a few times, for Internet chatting before you agree to meet in a public place for something innocent like a cup of coffee. Always leave yourself a way out at a first meeting.

Should you swop pictures with a potential date that you met online, do use a current photo that actually shows what you look like now, and not one from 20 years ago when you were prom queen. They want to know what you look like now.

So to sum it all up:

Avoid surprises, don't compromise your integrity in any way and get to know someone anonymously before venturing further into a potential relationship.

Remember keep on loving

Udo

Udo Vieth is fast becoming an expert on love and relationships, as well as being a qualified EFT and Biofeedback practitioner. Click http://www.TopRelationships.com for more information.