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Friday, December 28, 2007

Living In Chat Rooms

Heading into internet chat rooms can be the solution to so many of life's problems. It happens all too often that there is a question nagging at you that you just can't find an answer for. It's so easy nowadays just to pop onto the internet and ask someone to figure it out for you. What movie was that song in? Go to a music or movie chat. What do you need to fix the kitchen sink? Find yourself a plumbing chat.

Those unfamiliar with the wonderful sub culture of internet chat rooms usually assume they're all about sex. That's pretty much the kind of chat the internet got built on, so the prejudice is always there. While it's safe to say that the majority of organized internet chat is rooted in sex, there is still a lot more out there.

When my neighbor moved in, for instance, he was dreaming of all sorts of renovations. He wanted to take this wall down, put these lights up and build a deck and whatever else. Before he made phone calls to contractors and visits to building supply stores, he did his research on the world wide web. His first stop was regular websites that offered tips and advice. From there he discovered a variety of chat rooms dedicated to topics about renovating. There people vented about problems, professionals hung around to answer question and in the end he wound up more prepared then most people in his position.

There are places like this online offering chats about anything. Food, cars, collecting , photography and, yes of course, dating. For people sharing any of these interests it can make for a wonderful place to hang out. It also makes for a pleasant distraction from the computer tasks you're supposed to be doing. This makes chat rooms a thorn in the side of a lot of companies who think their employees are spending far too much time… well… virtually socializing.

Do it responsibly, or at least don't get caught, and sharing your expertise or interest with others can really pay off. Even if it's not a professional topic, such as the construction example, socializing online with people of similar interests is good networking. Nowadays when you ‘know a guy who knows a guy,' you may be talking about a person you only know through an internet handle. Heck, I've got work like that. I even got help finding an apartment after meeting someone from a city I was planning on moving too.

Obviously there is a definite need to be careful with these situations. Chat rooms regularly warn not to give out personal information over the internet. For the most part they're referring to things like credit card numbers. Watch you don't give away things like phone numbers, addresses or place of work either. Eventually you may find yourself in a chat with someone you've grown to trust and want to get to know better. Meeting people from the internet happens all the time and it doesn't have to be dangerous. Just be sure that you talk to them outside of the chat room before you start talking about personal information.

Lastly, don't be afraid of those Dating chat rooms. Whether you check them out with serious intent for a relationship or just out of sheer curiosity, they can be fun places to go. Especially when you just want to talk to someone and all your real world friends have gone to sleep.

Christopher M. Luck has an extensive background in working exclusively with the top online chat rooms of the internet today and is now offering his free chatroom secrets to the public. If you are at all interested in Christopher's closely guarded advice, tips, or secrets, you can visit his chatroom blog

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